Author Archives: David

Webinar 4-14-19 Finding and Handling Beings Who Are Destroying Your Future – Part 2

We covered some of the beings who are destroying your future in our Saturday workshop and we ended with a major realization which we will discuss in the Sunday webinar.

We have more beings blocking our futures and we will discuss them in this webinar before doing a session to show you how to detect and handle these beings whose messages are so reasonable that you have been repeating them to others for most of your life.

Here are just a few of these messages:

I could end up in poverty if I fail

I’m too old for this

It’s too late

To be early is a waste of time

I’m tired, I don’t want to think about that

I want to make everything go away

Is it worthwhile?

We are going to discuss a few of these intentions and I will choose a volunteer who will offer up some of his spirits for a session.

This session will show you some aspects of your personality that you have not previously explored. Be prepared for an unexpected result, even if you are not the person receiving the session.

Join me tomorrow, Sunday 4-14-19, on Zoom at 12 noon using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

There is a $10 donation for the webinar, and if you have not already paid, please use this link: paypal.me/DavidStLawrence/10

Free Workshop 4-13-19 Finding and Handling Beings Who Are Destroying Your Future

You may think your future success is being blocked by beings who hold you back with fearful images of failure and that is partially true. Your future is actually being blocked by beings you can rarely detect because their messages are so reasonable that you have been repeating them to others for most of your life.

Here are just a few of these messages:

Nothing can be done about it

I can’t make money

It’s going to kill me

That could never happen

I could end up in poverty if I fail

I’m too old for this

It’s too late

To be early is a waste of time

I’m tired, I don’t want to think about that

I want to make everything go away

We are going to discuss a few of these intentions and I will choose a volunteer who will offer up some of his spirits for a session.

This session may be unlike many of the other sessions because these beings have usually made themselves part of your personality and generally do not recognize that they are separate beings with histories of their own.

Getting the being to recognize that he is an immortal being may take longer than freeing him from the incident he is dramatizing.

Join me today, Saturday 4-13-19 on Zoom at 12 noon using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

Webinar – 4-7-19 – When People Resist Your Attempts to Make Them Happy

Once you learn how to make people happy and can do it without effort, you can learn how to recognize when the person is resisting your efforts to make them happy and adjust your expectations of doing business accordingly.

First of all, not everyone wants to do business with you, or to be your friend, or to have you as an employee. If you cannot bring someone up to friendly behavior with polite conversation, there is no reason to continue and you should say to yourself, “NEXT!” and look for another person to communicate with.

There can be several barriers to doing business with people who actually need what you are willing to provide. 1. They do not like you for some reason. 2. They do not understand what you are willing to provide. 3. You are already trying to do business when you have not handled barriers #1 and #2.

If you cannot bring a person out of hostility with a few friendly remarks, you are facing a situation which will not result in satisfactory business transactions. Look at it this way, if there is no opportunity to make friends, there is no opportunity to do business. You will do best by using caring communication and suggesting someone else they might be happier with.

If you are successful in making the person feel important by what you are saying and you have developed a reality between you and them, you still need to create affinity for what you are providing and create a reality on what it will do for them.

As a counselor, it is fairly easy for me to make friends with people and make them feel important in a very short time. It is a more challenging task to get them to share their fears and major life issues, but it can be done if I have made myself real to them and made them feel important. Once they feel safe sharing a problem that bothers them, I have the task of convincing them that I have a solution for that problem.

This is where experience comes in. When you have already solved the problem that this person is concerned about, a simple narrative of how the solution was accomplished can go a long way toward getting the person interested in what you have to offer.

I may have made this sound complicated, but every step is designed to make the prospect happy about dealing with me, happy about what I do, and happy about the solution I offer for his problem. If at any point, I find I am making the prospect unhappy I go back to the last step where happiness was occurring and remedy what I have changed or cheerfully end off with the last friendly step.

The person may have been very happy to meet me and share life experiences, and happy to hear that I am a spiritual counselor, but his upbringing may stop any further discussion of spirits as that is an evil practice and is forbidden to him. If I end off and make it safe for him to refuse any further exposure to spirits, we will remain friends and our relationship will continue with no fear that I will involve him in spiritual matters.

If you are selling insurance or providing any kind of service, you will not be wasting your time making friends with people and letting them know what services you provide. If you can make them happy in the process of meeting them and describing what you do, they will not feel threatened and may even mention you to others. People will refer others to someone they feel good about. Making people happy is almost a guarantee that you will get referrals.

I get new people showing up unannounced because someone I know has mentioned what I do. They did not need it, but thought that a friend could use my skill at handling troubled spirits.

Another point to remember is that your prospects are not really interested in how complete your insurance offering is, or how many spirits you can scare away, they want solutions and how you achieve the solution is less important than how quickly can you provide the solution. If you can make a person happy by discussing a solution for their problem, you can build trust so they will accept the work that goes into providing the solution.

If you can break down a commercial transaction into the following steps, I think you will find your success rates will soar:

1. Make friends with the person so you are real to them and you are both happy with the result.

2. Discover what problem they are facing and determine if they are willing to pay for a solution for it.

3. Introduce your product or service to them so that it is real to them and make them happy about it.

3. Discuss how you are going to provide the solution they need and make them happy about it.

At any point in this process, if the person starts resisting what you are doing, be prepared to end off in a friendly manner. If you have done the steps well, you may not have a customer, but you will have a new acquaintance who may end up referring you to others. You will also find that the process will not exhaust you, but will leave you feeling satisfied whatever the outcome.

Please join me Sunday 4-7-19 at 12 noon EDT on Zoom using this link:

https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

There is a $10 donation for the webinar, and if you have not already paid, please use this link: paypal.me/DavidStLawrence/10

Free Workshop – Some Ways to Make Others Happy

1. Please read Try Making Others Happy before going on.

2. Refresh your memory on what Caring Communication is and what it does.

Caring Communication is the exchange of information

between living beings

with the intent to help the other being

achieve a higher state of existence.

3. Making the other person feel important is one way of making them happy. Cheerfully asking a person their name and introducing yourself will raise a person’s emotional tone level. In many cases, this is all that is needed to make a person happier then they were before.

4. Noticing something about the person and complimenting them on it can make a person happy.

5. Showing interest in a person will often make them happy.

6. Asking them what they do and acknowledging the importance of their work will often make people happy.

7. If you ask enough questions about them and their history to establish a reality on who they are and why they are important, you will remember them and they will remember you. This is not a mechanical activity. You must be interested in them and in learning about them for this to make them happy and to make you happy. Your intention is to determine if you can become friends and to engage in conversation until you have established enough common interests that you will attempt to remain friends.

8. This is not something you have to do with everyone you meet, only the people who you wish to be friends with. You do not have to do this all at once. A simple introduction to some one you will be seeing often like a cashier in a supermarket can be followed by expanded conversations each time you meet the person. It will not be long before the person will smile and become happy when you appear before them. Every transaction with this person will raise their tone level and yours as well.

9 If you can do this simple exercise with people you meet on a daily basis, you will soon be able to do this effortlessly with clients and people you do business with.

10. Once you learn how to make people happy and can do it without effort, you can learn to recognize when the person is resisting your efforts to make them happy and adjust your expectations of doing business accordingly.

11. People who resist your efforts to make them happy are not in good shape and they make poor business or life partners. Handling this kind of relationship will be the subject of the Sunday webinar.

We will be discussing and drilling ways to make people happy in this Saturday’s workshop. Join me on zoom at 12 noon using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

Try Making Others Happy

During recent counseling sessions, I discovered an often ignored factor that can completely transform your relationships with clients and other people you deal with.

It is so powerful that, when followed, you will get repeat business and if you try to apply it and are repulsed by the person you are trying to help, you will know that your relationship with this person is essentially doomed.

This is such a powerful concept that it should become an axiom of some sort, except that I do not know how to phrase it right now.

You may think that you are providing a service to someone or are providing a product for someone, but you will only succeed IF YOU HAVE MADE THEM HAPPY BY DOING SO.

Take a look at your business or practice and notice the times you have made someone really happy with what you have provided.

How did you feel?

How did they feel?

Did they recommend you to others?

Did they come back for more services or products?

Now take a look at the times you worked very hard to please a client or customer and it did not make them happy.

Ask the same questions and the answers will be no or negative.

I think you will find that you are actually in the business of making people happy when you interact with them, and that happiness is the only real measuring stick to apply when deciding to work with them.

In other words, if you cannot make someone happy when you are first introduced to them, you should not be doing business with them.

There is an important truth that I learned from a master salesman, “Make friends and then do business.

Applying what I have recently learned from talking to spirits, if you cannot bring a person up to happiness when you are first introduced to them, your chances of making them happy with a commercial transaction is almost nonexistant.

You will be better off sending them to a competitor than trying to please them with your work or services. This is why bringing up what you have to offer and the price for your services early is so rational.

If you cannot make friends with your prospective client or customer, they will not be happy with anything you do for them. Quite frankly, working for someone like that will cost you time and money. Think of the bosses you have worked for who were not happy with you or what you did. You probably lost valuable time working for them and they never appreciated you or paid you what you were worth. I have years of experience to support this fact. I thought, like you, that good work would pull me through. If you cannot make someone happy with what you are doing, you are up against a spiritual problem that your hard work will not solve.

People have crippled themselves for life trying to make unhappy bosses, wives and customers pleased with their efforts, when the unhappy person’s state of mind was such that the efforts were invisible to them.

If you are in doubt, just ask these questions of the person who you are failing to please.
“What will make you happy with what I am doing?
“What do you consider to be a fitting reward for doing that?”

If you cannot ask the person these questions, you already know what their answers are.

One again for those who find this hard to grasp: If you cannot make a person happy when you first meet them, you have very little chance of success doing business with them.

Making a person happy to meet you only requires caring communication. If that doesn’t work on this person, find someone else to deal with.

I will be doing a workshop and a webinar on this topic this week because I think it is so important and so hard to grasp. There will be more details later.

Results From Today’s Webinar: Granting Wishes For Others

We practiced sharing our states of grace with each other and discovered that we experienced joy on sharing with others who could happily accept our grace and we all had an opportunity to experience being the target of others sharing their grace with us.

We also discovered that we could easily see when someone has resistance to being showered with a state of grace. This was not the person themselves but spirits who were not ready to experience joy of this sort. We were able to overpower this tentative resistance, but it was enough to confirm what Alka Madan had shared with us when she recounted what she encountered when she shared her state of grace with those who were not ready to receive it.

Following the webinar, I have had a persisting state of grace which helped me sort out some long standing issues with no effort at all. I am able to see a positive effect on others in my household since you all shared your grace with me. This confirmed what one of you suggested about the ripple effect of sharing grace with other beings. Those who experience the sharing of grace should be able to share their state of grace with others.

There is more work to be done in this area, but the initial results are very encouraging.

If we can attain a state of grace, we can share it with others and we all benefit.

For those who are unfamiliar with the concept of a state of grace, here is a definition that works for some of us:

When you are in harmonious friendship with yourself,

with others and with the cosmos,

you experience an effortless flow of grace. 
Grace has power in it, and when we align with the friendly power of the universe,
we can create a life of spiritual freedom, emotional strength and effortless success .
Flowing with grace, we contribute to others and to the ongoing flourishing of life. 

You may wish to read the earlier posts on reaching and maintaining a state of grace.

Have a great week creating and enjoying your state of grace.

Webinar 3-31-19 Granting Wishes For Others

We spent yesterday discussing the power you have while in a state of grace and how you can influence the lives of others. Today I would like to have you practice harnessing that power and using it to help each other achieve a goal that seems to be out of reach.

I have seen what you can do when we practiced remote healing and you joined your intentions to mine. We are going to discuss how we might add our grace to each other and then we will get someone to volunteer an area where they need help in making the physical universe conform to their needs.

We will then come to agreement on what help will achieve the needed result and we will join our intentions and see what results we can bring about.

We will do this several times to make sure we know how to do this as a group and in this way we will handle any counter-intentions from the group or from the beings surrounding us.

Please do all you can to raise your state of grace before the webinar, using meditation, SRT axioms, and solo sessions where required.

Then identify for yourself what result would make the most improvement in your life so that we can work to bring this about for you.

Please join me at 12 noon EDT on Zoom using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

There is a $10 donation for the webinar, and if you have not already paid, please use this link: paypal.me/DavidStLawrence/10

Workshop 3-30-19 on Daily Maintenance of Your Spiritual State Of Grace

What is the most pleasant, energizing and generous feeling you can experience? 
When you are in harmonious friendship with yourself, with others and with the cosmos, you experience effortless flow of grace. 
Grace has power in it, and when we align with the friendly power of the universe,
we can create a life of spiritual freedom, emotional strength and effortless success .
Flowing with grace, we contribute to others and to the ongoing flourishing of life. 

To read more about the state of grace, read: http://artofgrace.org/

You may choose to think of this state as being in the zone, or being in present time with all spirits in synch with you.

It takes continuing work to stay in the zone because you pick up confused spirits every day from the people you encounter at work, on the street, or in hospitals.

If you want to stay cheerfully productive, you need to spend a few minutes every morning handling the factors that will keep you out of a state of grace.

There are at least three things you should use to make sure you are properly set up for your day.

1. Meditate until you and your spiritual companions are all in present time.

2. Handle any difficulties by running SRT processes on any beings who put out low-toned emotions.

2. Review the SRT Axioms and make sure all are in.

There are a few more points which we will discuss in the workshop and I will run a session on a volunteer to show how this can be done.

Join me Saturday at 12 noon EDT using the usual link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444.

Yesterday’s Workshop On Present Time

We had an informal discussion yesterday about Living and Working In Present time and you can view it at this link: https://vimeo.com/326087220

Most of the workshop centered on how much we are out of present time, which is why we decided to have another go at the topic in today’s webinar.

I think you will find our relaxed discussion hit on several important areas which should be important for anyone who expects to make his mark on history.

Listen to this workshop and then join us on Sunday’s webinar using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

There is a $10 donation for the webinar, and if you have not already paid, please use this link: paypal.me/DavidStLawrence/10

Webinar 3-24-19 If Present Time Is Boring And Uncomfortable, How Do We Change The Rules?

One remedy for an unpleasant present time existence is to read a book and go elsewhere. Another remedy is to have a drink or drug that takes you attention elsewhere.

However, your best chance to change your future is to do something in present time that changes the counter-intentions that prevent you from changing your future.

We will talk about how you can change the rules you agreed to live by.

We had a long discussion yesterday about Living and Working In Present time and you can view it at this link:  https://vimeo.com/326087220

If you view that workshop, you should have some ideas on how you might alter your future to make you more successful and happier.

To prepare for this Sunday’s webinar, I suggest you list the counter-intentions and intentions that you can perceive in present time. We will do some exercises and possibly a session to unstick you from any barriers that exist in present time.

You are living by rules that you do not realize you have agreed to. We will explore those rules and what you can do to change the game you are playing.

Join me tomorrow at 12 noon using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

There is a $10 donation for the webinar, and if you have not already paid, please use this link: paypal.me/DavidStLawrence/10