Assuming A New Identity To Change Your Life For The Better – Part One

Your identity can mean many things. One of the common definitions is who a person is, or the qualities of a person or group that make them different from others. The assumption of an identity gets to be a bit complicated because your identity comes down to what people think of you. That means that your identity is determined to a great extent by what people agree you are. That means that your family and your home town and your school mates have a great deal to do with your identity, until you take steps to change your identity.

If you do not take charge of determining your identity, you can get stuck with the identity that others have assigned to you. Your personality affects your identity, but your personality is determined by the interaction of you and your spiritual companions and the way you react to the external world. Your identity is a negotiated situation because it is the way the world sees you. You can change your personality by handling your reactions to external events and to the spirits who accompany you through life. As you change your personality, you gain the ability to change your identity because you will change the way that others see you.

The important thing to remember is that you can change your personality through spiritual counseling. This allows you to change the effect that your spiritual companions have on you and this is manifested by your changed reactions to the threats and challenges of the world you live in. Simply put, you can change from being the adverse effect of challenges and threats from others to becoming cause over these others and impervious to whatever they are trying to do.

For example, the person whom other regards as a fearful wimp is usually carrying memories of punishments and threats from earlier lifetimes. When these persistent memories are erased, the person becomes far more aggressive and changes his relationships with the others in his life. These memories of punishments and painful deaths are carried not only by the being running the body, but by many of his spiritual companions as well. They have all died painful deaths which is evidenced by the fact that they are not able to pick up their own bodies, but have decided to tag along with you.

Let’s get back to matter of your identity. Your identity is what others think of you. You have a different identity as far as your children are concerned, if you have children, than from from your wife. To your wife, you have a certain identity, to your business partners and friends and career, other people climbing the ladder of success, you have another identity. If you grew up in a small town and still live there, people still may still think of you as little Tommy Smith even though you are middle-aged.

You have to behave in a totally different manner and have great certainty to establish whatever new identity you wish to maintain. This requires that every painful memory has to be addressed and totally handled in order to maintain your new identity without effort. In order to be real, you have to have all the behavioral characteristics of that new identity.

It appears to me that I have been promoting the ability to change your lives for the better, when what most people seem to want is to control their identity. When we grasp what identity people are looking for, we can give them that identity if they want. They have to identify the identity they wish to assume and the personality that supports that identity and all we need to do is to remove the counter intention to assuming that personality and that identity.

The counter-intention to becoming successful and assuming a new identity comes from the painful memories of overwhelm and defeat we have experienced, mostly in past lives. Some of the memories are ours, but many memories are being carried by the spirits who surround us and are being shared with us every day.

In Part Two, we will discuss how to handle the counter-intention to assuming a new identity and a new personality to go with it. Some of this may require counseling, but the beauty of Spiritual Rescue Technology is that you can do much of it yourself in solo sessions.

Unexpected Consequences of Economizing Unwisely

Reposted from October 12, 2016 by David St Lawrence

There are times when we realize that we need to economize, but I discovered that it is possible to overcorrect. In our desire to cut back on expenses, it is possible to alter our identity so much that people regard us differently.

A client of mine realized he was in over his head on his credit card debt and borrowed money from his IRA and paid off his cards and all outstanding bills.

You would think that this action would have put him into a wonderful frame of mind now that he was no longer worrying about keeping up with crushing interest payments.

He came to me because he no longer felt motivated to work, even though he had commitments to meet and clients to handle. To make this clear to you, these were the same commitments and clients he was happy to deal with before he paid off his credit cards.

On inquiring further, I learned that he had made one more change to his normal operation and that was turning his entire paycheck over to his wife so she could make payments into the IRA within a 60 day period so their withdrawal would not be counted as a taxable distribution.

What actually happened when he did this was that he put himself into an “enforced poverty” situation with no “walking-around money” or haircut money, or lunch money for entertaining clients and other people he networked with.

This “enforced poverty” actually changed his viewpoint of himself to the point where he could no longer act like the highly talented professional he was. He is extremely effective at selling his services and commanding high rates for doing so. His easy-going personality and confident approach to handling serious issues normally give him instant credibility when dealing with new clients.

When he “pauperized” himself by cutting out the simple pleasures that made his existence comfortable, he downgraded himself in his own eyes to someone who desperately needed to make deals at any price. If you have ever encountered a salesperson who was desperate to make a sale, you will know how repellent that attitude is. You just want to get away from his desperation. That shift in his viewpoint instantly affected his ability to make money.

I coached him into looking at what he needed in the way of his own discretionary income to feel comfortable about himself and his morale increased immediately. It wasn’t much, but it changed his self-esteem and that was what was needed.

Each of us has some idea of what we need to feel comfortable about our current place in life. For some, it is having enough money in their pockets to buy a meal whenever they want to. For some, it is having enough money to afford traveling by cab whenever they want to. For some, it is being dressed stylishly. All of these are creature comforts by which we judge our worth in some way.

If your income is dependent on your ability to make a good impression on others, these creature comforts are essential because they bolster your self-esteem and let you concentrate on doing business. If you deprive yourself of these service facilities your attention will be distracted by their lack and you will not present yourself with your normal confidence.

Maintaining one’s self-image is an individual issue and the solutions will be different for everyone. The essential point to remember is that if you are to present yourself in a way to inspire confidence, you must attend to those creature comforts that you consider essential.

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Transcript of Academy Meeting on Identity – Part Four

This academy meeting covered a great deal of material about identities and spiritual companions that had never been discussed before. The four participants were Joachim Held, Alka Madan, Petra Held, and myself. This was the first online meeting where we were all invoking our spiritual companions for answers and opinions.

As a reminder, basically, an identity is what others think of you. It can be changed with Spiritual Rescue Technology.

Transcript of Academy Meeting on Identity – Part Three

This academy meeting covered a great deal of material about identities that had never been discussed before. The four participants were Joachim Held, Alka Madan, Petra Held, and myself. This Academy meeting was one of the rare opportunities where we worked as a team and shared realizations about identities. There was so much information discussed that I felt it was prudent to break up the transcript into several parts. Basically, an identity is what others think of you.

Transcript of Academy Meeting on Identity – Part Two

This academy meeting covered a great deal of material about identities that had never been discussed before.

The four participants were Joachim Held, Alka Madan, Petra Held, and myself. This Academy meeting was one of the rare opportunities where we worked as a team and shared realizations about identities.

TRANSCRIPT – Academy Meeting On Identities – Part One

This academy meeting covered a great deal of material that had never been discussed before. The four participants were Joachim Held, Alka Madan, Petra held, and myself. There was so much information discussed that I felt it was prudent to break up the transcript into several parts. The discussion started as soon as I announced the topic for the meeting.

Establishing Harmony With Your Spiritual Companions – Part Four

Your ideal scene should resemble a finely tuned team of contributing spirits who are cheerfully operating in accord with your wishes and who share in the creation of desirable effects in the physical and spiritual universes. You should be able to go from intention to final result as one seamless flow of activity, making adjustments on the fly as required and learning from the process, so your actions and effectiveness keep improving.

In this part, I will discuss how you can recruit and manage spirits to operate in complete harmony for maximum efficiency and pleasure. As I have mentioned before, caring communication is essential when working with spirits. Strangely enough, not everyone was able to grasp the meaning or the importance of this activity and continued to give orders to their spirits instead of bonding with them and setting them free. I have recently learned how to simplify SRT procedures so that you can easily develop trust with the spirits you are trying to help. The details are covered in the “Developing Trust With Others Series,” which you can find elsewhere on this site. However, I will cover the basic elements here.

The essence of a trust relationship is awareness of the other person’s emotions at all times and acting in a manner that strengthens the trust. The fact that you are using communication skills beyond the five human senses means that you need to be trained and practice until you can perform the actions effortlessly.

One of the most critical factors in creating trust is your state of mind. Having peace of mind allows you to transmit your feelings to the person or being you are trying to help. When you can reliably achieve peace of mind, you will be able to begin developing trust between yourself and any person or animal. Attempting to develop a trust relationship without first achieving peace of mind is a waste of time.

Trust, like admiration, is a phenomenon beyond the five human senses. It occurs when a person or being knows that your intention is to help them and not harm them. You might wish to think of this as telepathy, but it is a communication of your feelings to another being in a way that develops trusted cooperation.

You must maintain a clean intention that you are willing to help the spirit and respect their reluctance and any fears they may have. You must maintain your peace of mind while you are helping the spirit regardless of what they do or say. Your intention is what is important. If you have the right intention, your words will serve to let the client know what step you are on. If you are working directly with a spirit, you can probably run the process silently.

A person or a spirit can pick up your intention, and if you are living calmly in the present moment and intending to be trusted and helpful, the person or being will respond appropriately and will follow your instructions.

If you are operating in this manner, you can establish communication with any person or spirit by imagining that you are that person or being and continuing this activity until you can perceive what it is like to be that person or being. Repeat imagining you are this person or being until you are comfortable being them and know their intentions and why they have them. At this point, you will know what to say or ask to make the person or being happier. Their thoughts will come to you without asking for them. Do remember that you need to be aware of the client’s emotions as well as the spirits you are dealing with.

You need to stay in the present moment with your attention on everyone’s emotions while you maintain an intention of peaceful cooperation. You will know whether to ask if the being wants to leave the current situation or to continue working with the being who is operating the body, the client. If you have been maintaining your peace of mind, the client and the beings you are helping will cooperate, and the realizations and releases will come quickly. Some beings will desire to leave and may break away quickly without even saying goodbye. If you feel the release, just acknowledge their departure and take up the next step, which is to ask if any spirits want to join the client with his future projects. If you have been doing a solo session, you ask if the spirits are willing to help you and what are they interested in.

When you follow these steps, you will be enlisting spirits who are willing to help you and will work in harmony with the spirits who are already on board.

If, at any time during the recruiting cycle, you get resistance and negative emotions from other spirits, make sure you are securely in your peace of mind mode and locate the sources of disharmony for future handling. Do not stop handling the new recruits until they are free or securely onboard. Once the recruiting is complete, locate and handle the beings who are unhappy or disturbed. If you maintain your peace of mind, you will quickly resolve what has disturbed these unhappy spirits. It will usually be an unhandled incident that has gone into restimulation while you were recruiting new spiritual companions. You simply handle it and restore the spirit’s free will, and he will decide to become a recruit or go elsewhere.

You will notice that this is just a refinement of the SRT reach and withdraw process using easily understood concepts and terms that can be used with new people. One of the main differences is the stress on learning how to develop peace of mind through meditation and returning to that state during processing. You can read about achieving peace of mind elsewhere on this site.

If you are adept at achieving peace of mind, you will become instantly aware whenever disharmony occurs in your group of spiritual companions. The disharmony occurs when an engram is restimulated, so you merely have to locate the spirit who is showing signs of upset and handle the incident which has gone into restimulation. Sometimes, just a gentle inquiry of the being will enable him to blow the charge by inspection. At other times the being will realize it has been trapped and will wake up and leave of its own accord. You will know the situation is handled when a release occurs.

As you continue to develop greater harmony within your group of spiritual companions, you will experience a state of exhilaration that persists for longer periods of time. You will be able to go from intention to final result as one seamless flow of activity, making adjustments on the fly as required and learning from the process, so your actions and effectiveness keep improving.

You will be aware of your team, and they will be aware of you. It is a great state to be in.

Establishing Harmony With Your Spiritual Companions – Part Three

It’s time to revisit the basic cause of disharmony if we are to detect the different sources of disharmony in a group. The first step is recognizing that harmony comes from exchange. This may not be obvious, but harmonious activity requires a full and fair exchange between all participants.

Since you are supposed to be leading your group of spirits, it is up to you to determine what exchanges are occurring between you and your spirits and who do these exchanges benefit.

If a majority of the spirits surrounding you are stuck in past incidents and are projecting shame, blame, and regret, they will not have enough life force to help you with anything creative. As a matter of fact, spirits whose emotional tone level is below interest will not be able to engage in positive activities of any kind. These spirits will be a drag on you and every action you try to undertake. They will intentionally oppose any action that produces change/ These are the beings who make your life so difficult. Handling these damaged beings is a continuing activity as you will be picking up more damaged beings every time you attempt to help someone who is not doing well.

In fact, all you need to do is to talk with someone in the supermarket or on the phone, and you may find that you have picked up some new refugees from a person who is doing worse than you spiritually. That sinking feeling you get after visiting a friend in the hospital may come from the beings who spotted you in the hospital and decided to come home with you. Staying sane and cheerful is a continuing effort of spotting and handling the spirits who decide to attach themselves to you. After all, you brush your teeth every day and wash your hands to keep yourself clean. Why not plan on dealing with stray spirits when they join you and interrupt the harmony you are creating.

Fortunately, you do not have to arrange for daily or weekly SRT sessions if you learn how to do daily SRT solo sessions which will keep you in present time and on top of any actions that threaten your spiritual harmony. I have produced a free Handbook for SRT Solo Sessions which I will send to you on request.

You will use these solo sessions to handle any spirits who are not contributing to the harmony of your existence. The disharmony of some spirits will be very obvious because they will be causing you pain or worry or fear when you try to do something positive. You merely spot where they are located and engage them in conversation to find what incident they are stuck in using the SRT reach and withdraw processes to inspire trust and set them free. Any time you feel less than enthusiastic about what you are doing, you should check to see if you really know what you are doing and whether you have spirits who are upset. In either case, handle what is out until you are enthusiastic again.

Once you have handled the spirits whose actions are hindering your creativity, you should look for those spirits who are not contributing in any way to your success. There are often many spirits who are merely spectators to your daily attempts to make things go right. They observe and comment but do nothing to improve conditions or provide useful information. They contribute to the background noise and to negative feelings but do nothing useful. When you reach out to them, they do not respond or may resist answering when you address them. They are not contributing to the harmony of your group, so you should make every effort to remove them when you detect their presence.

You do not want a population of freeloading spirits as they are generally glum and useless, and they have nothing to contribute to your efforts to dominate the physical universe. As a spirit having a human existence, much of your efforts are dedicated to dominating and arranging the physical universe to give you pleasurable sensations and amusement. Non-producing spiritual companions are an unnecessary burden and should be discarded as soon as possible if they cannot be rehabilitated. Anything that hinders your ability to produce results should be investigated and purged.

Your ideal scene should resemble a finely tuned team of contributing spirits who are cheerfully operating in accord with your wishes and who share in the creation of desirable effects in the physical and spiritual universes. You should be able to go from intention to final result as one seamless flow of activity, making adjustments on the fly as required and learning from the process, so your actions and effectiveness keep improving.

In Part Four of this series, I will discuss how you can recruit and manage spirits to operate in complete harmony for maximum efficiency and pleasure.


Yes, you can run solo sessions yourselves, and many of you have learned how to do this just by reading the books I have written. But now, I have discovered a simpler way for you to handle the spirits you become aware of as your awareness increases.

The cruel reality of life on this planet, at least, is that you are surrounded by spirits, and you and your body are continually being influenced by these spirits to some extent. If you are certain that you are a meat body with a soul and will go to some other place when you die, you will suffer through life and continually wonder why bad things happen to you. You may never even wonder where certain strange thoughts and feelings come from. You will just go on hoping for the best and looking for a sign that someone is looking after you.

On the other hand, some of you have always been aware that there is more to life than making a body grow up and die. You see auras and energies that other people can’t see, and you are aware of spiritual beings and their efforts to communicate with you. You learn various spiritual disciplines in an effort to achieve peace of mind, and strangely enough, the more you achieve peace of mind, the more spirits you become aware of and the more telepathic messages you receive.

This is why Scientology Operating Thetans and other highly trained people get a bit strange in their advanced years. They are taught that getting rid of stray beings will increase their power and awareness. It certainly does that, but the supply of stray beings is infinite, so the more you remove by exorcising them, the more you are aware of how many still exist.

In Spiritual Rescue Technology, we regard these stray spirits as a resource that we can tap. When we free a being who is trapped in an incident and bring them to present time, we can recruit them to help us with our projects if they are willing to work in harmony with us. If their interests do not align with ours, we set them free to exercise their free will elsewhere. For example, if we free a spirit who is still set on conquering the world of science while we are happily pursuing a gardening career, we have freed ourselves of a constant distraction, and we can both continue our pursuit of happiness, but in different directions.

Since there is an ever-present supply of spiritual beings and we pick up more every day when we interact with other people and places, it is vital for us to learn how to do solo SRT sessions so we can handle beings as we become aware of them. I will be publishing a Handbook For Solo Spiritual Counseling Sessions – revision 4 to give you all of the details for setting up and running sessions, but I can give you the essentials now so you can see how this differs from the earlier solo process.

  1. Establish your peace of mind before beginning the session.
  2. Locate the being or beings who are in distress.
  3. Imagine that you are the being or beings until you fully understand what they are concerned about.
  4. Re-establish your peace of mind and intend that these beings will be able to trust you.
  5. Observe the being or beings while keeping your peace of mind in place until the being or beings show that they trust you. This will only happen when you have a clean intention to help them and be worthy of their trust.
  6. When the beings show that they trust you, ask them questions to help them resolve what they are concerned about. If you have maintained your peace of mind, you will know what is uppermost in their minds and will know what to ask to help them resolve their issues. 
  7. You may have to ask if they know they are immortal beings and are they willing to exercise their free will again. Would they like a fresh start elsewhere, or are they interested in helping you with your projects?
  8. Continue working with them until you both experience a release.
  9. End off or find a new spirit to work with.

Establishing Harmony With Your Spiritual Companions – Part Two

If you have finally realized that life should not have to be so difficult, we can get on to the interesting part, which is how you fix the problem once and for always.

The first step is recognizing that harmony comes from exchange. I know this is not obvious, but harmonious activity requires full and fair exchange between all participants. Interestingly enough, there are many family situations where parents do not require exchange from their children. Instead, these parents carry the load of managing family affairs and caring for the people and materials of the household by themselves. These parents get used to doing everything by themselves and fail to recognize that harmonious family life is based on a fair exchange.

When an individual, whether in a meat body or as a free spirit, is in exchange with his environment, he can predict his future and is able to act in harmony with others and his environment. Beings who do not recognize the need to maintain a fair exchange with others are a burden on others and do not contribute to the harmonious actions of the group they are in.

You who are reading this article should be the leaders of your group of spirits. Do you know what you can exchange with your spiritual companions and what they should be contributing to you? Have you ever thought about your exchanges with the spirits who surround you and whisper advice and warnings to you? Would you like to have a tight-knit group of supportive spirits helping you and contributing to your daily efforts to control your life?

There is rarely any harmony in a group if the leader does not know the group exists and that he is leading it. Most of the meat-body people on this planet are unaware of their spiritual companions. Even those of you who are spiritually aware do not realize that you are surrounded by sentient beings who affect your every waking moment with their thoughts and concerns. These beings have painful and overwhelming memories of events that get triggered as you go about your daily life. Reading the news is enough to stir up old memories in most of us, so your morning dose of news can easily set the mood for a discouraging and upsetting day.

It is actually your job as the leader of this group of spirits to set the course of action to avoid disturbing things that are non-essential to your survival. One of your first actions is to avoid bad news that does not affect you or your family. Reading about conspiracies and alien invasions is as bad as a diet of horror stories. All of these produce negative reactions from your spiritual companions, which act on your emotional state and your health.

What this means is that if you are getting negative emotional reactions to any of your daily activities, you should consider stopping them and finding a way to calm your spiritual companions. Learn to meditate and make it a daily practice so that you can swiftly return to living in the present moment when disturbing events occur.

Once you learn to live in the present moment, you will begin to become aware of the messages you are receiving from your spiritual companions. By this point, you should take the opportunity to read “Talking To Spirits,” which is the third book in the Spiritual Rescue Technology series. This will give you an understanding of the many spirits who are accompanying you through life and will familiarize you with the many ways to communicate with these spirits.

If you are already aware of your spiritual companions, you should start observing them to see who is willing to help you and who is not being helpful. Those beings who are continually screaming in pain need to be handled, so they are free from the memories which haunt them and make your life miserable. This effort of handling troubled spirits can take many years, so you need to pay attention to those beings who are already trying to help you while you handle the beings who can’t help you.

In other words, creating a harmonious group of supportive spirits is a two-part activity. You have to handle the spirits who are actively blocking you from getting things done, but you need to keep your attention on beings who are helping you and learn what they need and want from you.

Little by little, you will establish order and achieve harmony among your spiritual companions, and you will make progress faster and faster as this occurs. After you handle the spirits who are actively sabotaging your life, you will be handling those who are just observing but not contributing to your welfare. Eventually, you will start experiencing the joy of living a fully satisfying life, and you will feel the exhilaration that comes with harmony among your spirits.

In Part Three of this series, I will discuss the different sources of disharmony among your spiritual companions and effective ways to handle them and optimize the harmony between you and your spirits.