The truth of the matter is that we are all responsible for choosing our mothers and, therefore, our sex, race, and life situation for this lifetime.
We as spirits have no sex or race or color, and our choice of parent makes all the difference in the life we live after that moment.
It is our own decision that determines whether we become the treasured child of a royal family or an abandoned baby in a dumpster. Furthermore, failing to pick our preferred body type results in a life where we always feel we are the wrong sex.
We can accept the limitations of the body type and family we chose, or we can decide to ignore those barriers and carve out a career that is more to our liking.
This video has one known error. In the opening moments, I state that the date is October 30, rather than August 30. Perhaps you may find others.