of this topic results in people leaving SRT after receiving excellent
definition of Havingness goes like this: Havingness: the
concept of being able to reach. By havingness,
we mean owning, possessing, being capable of commanding,
taking charge of
objects, energies, and spaces. Now, this is a technical definition
and is quite correct, but I would like to give you a definition that
might be more real to you.
alternate definition of havingness may be one which you can work with
and use to improve the results of your SRT processing:
havingness level determines how much of something good
can allow yourself to have
you start feeling uncomfortable with it,
it’s too good to be true, impossible, etc.
would like to share something with you that you will not find
Your havingness level is determined by the state of your spiritual companions.
There are lots of changes that your spiritual companions are not willing to experience.
is why some of you never seem to experience a slump after a great
session, and others are barely through with the session before you
have second thoughts about what you just experienced.
beings free from the traps they have been in for eons produces a rush
like no other. The freed beings are happy, and so are you for
discovering and handling what has kept them from being themselves.
Their joy at finding themselves awake and free again is contagious,
and everyone associated with the session feels a level of joy that
has to be experienced to be believed. After all, you have done
something incredible that very few people are able to do. You have
freed a spiritual being from a trap that has been holding him for
many thousands of years. This is something to celebrate as you have
just made the world into a better place.
for some individuals, as soon as the freed beings have left for their
new destination, a sense of gloom comes over the individual along
with some of these uncomfortable thoughts;
- It will take years to handle all of these beings!
- This will cost me too much money.
- How do I know this will fix my problem with _______?
- I will be at this for years.
- I can’t afford to do this.
- This might be dangerous if I encounter beings I can’t handle.
- Let’s wait and see if the problems go away by themselves.
- It’s so much work!
- I don’t see how this process made much difference. I don’t feel so good right now.
- It seems like the good feeling is gone already.
the way, this emotional slump can occur with any kind of counseling
or medical treatment. It is due to the fact that you have spiritual
companions who are stuck in losses or past failures, and what you
just did stirred them up. So, your session that freed a bunch of
happy beings and set them free actually stirred up other beings who
were not participating in the session. Since they are intimately
connected to you, and you feel their emotions, you get a blast of
their disappointment and sense of loss when the sessions ends, and
they did not benefit.
can probably happen in solo sessions as well as in regular SRT
counseling sessions, so you should be aware that a drop in tone level
at the end of a session is not a failure of the session; it is a
result of unhandled spiritual beings expressing their loss.
have written about this before, but I now realize that this is
probably the main reason why people embrace SRT and exhibit personal
improvement but eventually drift away to find something that doesn’t
leave them with a lower tone level after sessions.
is especially true for people who are gloomy when they come to us.
They get a session and actually laugh and come up to enthusiasm
during the session, and slump down to disinterest or below at the end
of the session.
the counselor does not spot what is going on and engage the client in
conversation in what is going on, the client can leave feeling
depressed and not come back.
to the client and setting expectations before the session will help
to keep them communicating with you when this happens. If the
counselor is prepared for this slump in tone level and prepared to
handle it, the client will be prepared to do some remedies for their
lowered tone level.
will be discussing this phenomenon and how to make sure you and your
clients do not get affected by the beings who get restimulated but
not handled in session.
me on Saturday 11-28-20 at 12 noon EDT for a webinar on the topic of
havingness and how to increase it, so you don’t lose clients through
this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444
Webinar Donation is $10, and you can use this