Category Archives: Helping Yourself and Others

People Can Be Hard To Help – Wait For Them to Ask For It First

We just spent the recent weekend talking about not inflicting your current reality on those who might become upset.

Less then sixteen hours later, I was presented with a real life example of how this works.

I was approached for help by a former Scientologist who has done some of her OT levels. After exchanging a few comments, she said she was no longer interested in Scientology.

I said I could understand why, and she asked why I said that.

I said that Scientology is a dead end because you cannot free yourself from spirits.

Her reality is that she has handled all of her unwanted spirits.

We had nothing further to discuss.

I had seen this earlier from a dear friend who has completed OT VIII. As far as she is concerned, she has handled all of her spirits and her current problems stem from some other source.

It occurs to me that asking a person where their problems might be coming from and if they felt they needed help might be a better opening than offering to help them in any way.

As we discussed in Sunday’s webinar, any offer to help is a suggestion about changing the person’s reality. The question, “Would you like me to help you?” is really saying, “Would you like to accept a different reality as yours doesn’t seem to be working very well.”

Even saying, “Would it be alright if I help you?” is suggesting that the person is not managing very well. If they are aware they need help, they may still balk at any change to their current reality.

Perhaps a better approach would be to ask what help would be acceptable to them and then deciding if that is something you care to provide.

You can still get in trouble, because they can want help you do not wish to provide.

Your offer of help is an offer to change someone’s situation. It seems that waiting for a request for help before offering it, raises the possibility that the person is really looking for a change.

We have learned from hundreds of SRT sessions that helping people who have not asked for it will cause you to be severely punished for your efforts.

Even when you are approached for help, you should make sure their reality will allow you to help them. Even when they approach you for help, you might start by asking what help would be acceptable to them and proceed carefully from that point.

Using Spiritual Rescue Technology Can Change A Person’s Reality – Use With Care

If you change a person’s stable data without giving them something to replace it, you can cause lasting damage to your relationship with that person. Some people have constructed a reality of what life is like and they cling to this reality as the stable data which gives them certainty. In some extreme cases, they will violently resist any attempt to introduce any changes to the reality they have constructed and cling to.

If they have been successful in constructing a life around their chosen reality, they can view any chance of introducing a new reality as very dangerous indeed. Lets say the person is an overachiever and has become wealthy and highly successful in a competitive field like corporate management. This person may view any introduction of alternate rules for success as a threat to his very existence, especially if he exhibits Obsessive-compulsive behavior. The person has achieved success by following a pattern of behavior and is unable to discern what parts of the pattern are vital and what can be discarded, so the person continues with everything to keep on being successful.

Only when a person can recognize that he or she is in a ruin, can he be desperate enough to try something new. Recognizing a ruin is not a simple matter and a person usually has to become desperate before they will seek help.

Recognizing that you are stuck in a ruin usually means that you are willing to change your reality for something better. However, some people stuck in a ruin just keep working harder and harder, figuring that is the only way to get out of the situation they are in.

If you are going to help someone with SRT, you need to use caring communication and truly understand the reality they are experiencing. Then you have the challenging job of getting them to understand the reality of what is happening to them.

This is where getting them to the point where they will read one of my books is essential. Any of the books will introduce them to the possibility that there is a SRT reality that will work for them. Then there is the matter of getting them to focus long enough that they will request a session and actually participate in a session. A single session is often enough to open them up to the possibility that they can be helped, but it is not a certainty.

They have often accumulated enough broken spirits that they are resistant to help and this is where education comes in. They have to be brought to the point where they realize what their first dynamic consists of and why they will be unstable until they learn to recognize spiritual influences and take responsibility for their state of mind.

Until a person is familiar with all of the 31 plus segments of their first dynamic, they are susceptible to being overwhelmed by negative emotions, random doubts, and baseless fears. Once they can identify the sources of these unwanted emotions and ideas, they can make steady progress toward true free will.

The final stage is when the person accepts his role as conductor of his spiritual companions and their performance and is able to create the future he desires without effort.

We are going to discuss this and other matters this Sunday, 1-12-2020 at 12 noon on Zoom. Use this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

There is a $10 donation for the webinar, and if you have not already paid, please use this link: paypal.me/DavidStLawrence/10

Are You Ready To Make New Friends?

As we enter the holiday season, it might be a good time to set our sights a bit higher for next year and expand our circle of good friends.

What is a good friend? From an SRT viewpoint, it is someone who shares life energy with you and you share life energy with them. You both are enhanced by your continuing association.

Where do you find such a treasure? First of all, you must intend to find such a person and you are open to meeting them and creating a friendship with them. Once again, you will find that intention is cause. It helps if both of you are seeking a friendship, but it is vital that one of you desire to meet a friend and the other person is open to meeting you and has the potential to become your friend.

We can just go on bumbling through life and hope that good fortune will occur, or we can deliberately set out to change our lives for the better. Here is a time-tested process which has produced results in the past.

Decide what activity we wish to share and how many friends we wish to share it with. You can see immediately that your choice of shared activities influences the scope of your new relationship. You can decide you need friends for horseback riding, or skiing, or meditation or all of them and this will actually determine which people you pull in.

Get an idea of the personality of the person who you wish to share the activity with and make a list of the personality traits that make the most sense to you. Make sure you include all the personality traits that are important to you. Believe it or not, these traits are far more important than the physical characteristics that might come to mind.

Their physical characteristics will not determine how the person acts toward you, only your reaction to them and this sets you up for them to use their physical characteristics to manipulate you which is not a basis for a friendship.

Here are some characteristics you might want to consider looking for in a potential friend. Their relative importances are your choice, but will actually define the relationship and its duration. The importances will also depend on the activities you wish to share with your new friend.

Desired Characteristics:
Emotional tone level as in cheerfulness or whining or grief, level of sanity, integrity, creativity, compassion, truthfulness, empathy, courage, sense of humor, willingness to consider new ideas, willingness to help others, affection for animals, ability to nurture plants and other living things, experiences similar to yours, similar cultural background to yours, voice and manner of speaking, physical condition similar to yours, personal habits, health, mental activity level, physical activity level, dexterity, willingness to accept or create change, cleanliness, body odor, neatness, sense of order, loyalty, creativity, physical appearance, sexual preferences, criminal history, political party affiliation, and drug use.

You will find that when you have defined an activity and the characteristics of the friend you wish to meet, that you will meet or be introduced to people who match the definition you hold in your mind. If you have only considered a few of the characteristics I have listed, the people who appear will have those characteristics, but not others which may be more important. Look at all of these characteristics and add any others you feel are important before you start searching.

Some of you may feel this is an unnecessarily mechanical process, but years of experience have shown me that making the choices up front and discussing them early is far less painful than discovering that your new friend or lover has characteristics which are unacceptable and cause an immediate break in the relationship.

Having a full set of characteristics defined makes initial conversations much easier as you can easily search for those characteristics which you have in common and quickly spot those which will be problematic for the activities which you intend to share. Remember, not all friends need to have the same characteristics. If you have a pet tarantula and your potential friend hates spiders, you can go bowling with this friend, but don’t bring them home.

Join me this Saturday, 12-28-19, on Zoom at 12 noon EDT for a free workshop on making new friends.

Use this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

SRT Workshop Video – Who Do You Want To Be From Now On

This was one of the most productive Spiritual Rescue Technology Workshops we have had this year.

The workshop was free and the video is free also. You can even download it and listen to it several times to get all of the information packed into this one hour session.

Some of the points we covered include this one: You have chosen an identity to be during this present moment, but you are not constrained to be that identity for the rest of this lifetime.

You have played millions of roles in the past and you have learned lessons in every role that can apply to your life in the 21st century.

You have also learned painful lessons that may still haunt you and make it hard to dream up new things or even envision a happy future. What we have in our hands at this point of time is a tool that will let us unlock our past experiences and the experiences of our spiritual companions so that we can actually move in any direction we choose.

And finally, if you really want to break out of your current situation, you need to learn how to observe for yourself. When you rely on others to interpret life for you, you are putting yourself in their hands. We are barraged with media that gives us opinions, not fact. If you are constantly relying on what the talking heads are saying, you are unfortunately removed from reality.

In this workshop, we explored what it will take to turn our lives in a new direction.

You will find the workshop video at this link: https://vimeo.com/375157943/a6ee0833a5

Video Recording of Free Workshop 9-28-19 Persistence Pays Off In SRT Processing

This uncut recording can be streamed using this link: https://vimeo.com/user64656077/review/363064007/391d7d12bf

Workshop on Zoom 9-28-19

We do not have all the answers yet to the problems created for us by spiritual beings. From what I have seen over the past 43 years, we seem to have more answers than almost any other spiritual study, but I feel we have barely scratched the surface at this point.

What this means is that any time we do not get a fantastic result from SRT processing, we need to ask why this happened and keep on asking until we can achieve the result we want.

If you understand that you are a cluster of beings acting as a single conflicted personality and are attempting to manage a carbon based life-form that is operated by a giant cluster of spiritual beings, you are beginning to grasp the complexity of life on this planet.

You and your group of beings are trying to make sense of the world and make your body do the actions needed to play the game of life in the 21st century. Meanwhile, the cluster of beings who are operating the body are taking in oxygen, converting food to energy, excreting waste products, making the lungs work and the heart beat, all without your conscious intervention.

We discuss the challenges we face and how they can be resolved if you persist in your use and study of Spiritual Rescue Technology.

Workshop 9-28-19 – Persistence Pays Off In SRT Processing

We do not have all the answers yet to the problems created for us by spiritual beings. From what I have seen over the past 43 years, we seem to have more answers than almost any other spiritual study, but I feel we have barely scratched the surface at this point.

What this means is that any time we do not get a fantastic result from SRT processing, we need to ask why this happened and keep on asking until we can achieve the result we want.

A quick review why many other spiritual practices fail will show that the lack of complete data is probably the biggest contributor to customer dissatisfaction.

In Scientology, for example, there is a great amount of data on the behavior of spirits under specific conditions. This data can be applied to free some people from their past life experiences. The omission of data on the spirits that surround and control people on this planet means that people seeking relief will often be plagued by memories and feelings that are not theirs and will have no way of handling these feelings of shame and regret. Scientology logic will cause the counseling activities to search for what the person has done to cause himself such pain and upset, and will ignore the effects of beings who are actually controlling the person for much of his life.

In SRT, there have been big advances over the past nine years and the rate of discovery has increased in the recent past, yet there are questions that we do not have answers to and we just do the best we can with the data we have. The difference between SRT and other spiritual practices is that we know we are missing data and we have ways to fill the gaps when we discover them.

So, if you have enjoyed the benefit of SRT sessions in the distant past but found that your fond desires for acquisition of real psychic ability or bodily healing did not materialize, just stick with those who are researching away until they announce the solution to your particular problems.

If you understand that you are a cluster of beings acting as a single conflicted personality and attempting to manage a carbon based life-form that is operated by a giant cluster of spiritual beings, you are beginning to grasp the complexity of life on this planet.

You and your group of beings are trying to make sense of the world and make your body do the actions needed to play the game of life in the 21st century. Meanwhile, the cluster of beings who are operating the body are taking in oxygen, converting food to energy, excreting waste products, making the lungs work and the heart beat, all without your conscious intervention.

What we do know is that the beings managing the body and interacting with the world can often heal the body by intention alone, the problem is that we do not know how to do this repeatedly and on demand.

We are learning new data with almost every SRT session we do and our ability to resolve spiritual and physical problems increases every week. Those who stay connected to the group by attending workshops and webinars receive a continuing education of incredible value. Those who understand the importance of getting frequent sessions reap a continuing benefit of increasing awareness and spiritual power which manifests itself as an ability to exercise their intentions in a masterful way. Those in this last category know what it is like to be able to do magic through intention alone.

When you can look at a situation and break it down into easily understood parts by inspection alone, you are well on your way to enjoying life and controlling your destiny.

In Saturday’s free workshop, we will discuss a situation of amazing complexity and show how by communicating with the spirits creating this situation, an elegant resolution can be attained.

Join me Saturday, 9-28-19, on Zoom at 12 noon EDT, using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

Free Workshop – 9-21-19 – Lessons We Can Learn From Spirits – Part 3

This lesson is about recognizing curses when you encounter them.

A curse is a many-faceted thing. A person can do something evil or merely stupid and end up cursed and suffer incredible torment or a long series of losses. This can affect a person who has done no evil this lifetime.

A person who is essentially a good person and who has not been evil this lifetime, can suffer a curse from something he did in a previous lifetime. He will activate the curse by attempting to do something he did badly in an earlier lifetime.

A person who is a good person and has not been cursed personally, can be dragging around a collection of spirits who are still under a curse. This person can be affected in many different ways and will have no idea what is going on because he did not instigate the cycle by doing evil. On the other hand, he has done evil things which he has forgotten so when he gets hit by a curse carried by his spiritual companions, his own evil or stupid deeds can get restimulated and he feels guilty or very sick.

A client named Rachel discovered the latter situation when she read a few pages of one of my books and got violently sick for several days. It took a long time to discover what was going on and a long time to bring the affected beings to present time.

I am going to share the story of the beings who were behind the sickness to give you a full understanding of the complexities that can underlie a simple reaction to reading a book. I hope to give you a more complete understanding of curses by the time the free workshop is over,

Join me Saturday, 9-21-19, at 12 noon using this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

A handy note you can pass onto friends who want to know about Spiritual Rescue Technology

Dear Interested Person

I have been delivering personal, business and spiritual counseling for over 40 years.

I was a trained Scientology Auditor and Mission holder from 1976 to 1995. When I left the Church, I delivered almost all of the Bridge for a period of years and kept researching to perfect a method of spiritual counseling that could deliver the benefits of the Scientology OT levels to sincere and aware individuals right off the streets.

Since 2010, I have been delivering Spiritual Rescue Technology almost every day to people all over the world.

The gains are stable and I train my student and clients to run solo sessions as soon as they are able. I have written three books on the subject and they are all available on Amazon.com.

The first book, Introducing Spiritual Rescue Technology, is quite short and can be read in a few hours. It can be downloaded from https://www.amazon.com/Introducing-Spiritual-Rescue-Technology-Practical-ebook/dp/B00NJTIJZW

If someone reads the book and it makes sense to them, I offer a free introductory session to see if we can work together satisfactorily. Additional sessions cost $100 per session and can be purchased as desired.

I deliver sessions on five continents these days and the sessions are delivered via Zoom video conferencing at times of your choosing.

If you would like to achieve what the COS was promising and much more, read my first book: Introducing Spiritual Rescue Technology.

If what I do resonates with you, call me and arrange for a free session.

Best regards,

David

Weekend Lineup Saturday 6-29-19 and Sunday 6-30-19

There will be no workshop on Saturday 6-29-19 as I am needed elsewhere.

On Sunday, 6-30-19, there will be a webinar and the topic will be, “Who Should We Help”

This is not a trivial topic as many of you seem to be unable to resist helping others even when those others are refusing your help. I would like to have us pool our observations on helping others and possibly work out a rational way to determine how to help others most effectively.

This will hopefully include how to recognize what help will be acceptable and how to accomplish helping those who have been betrayed by help in the past.

The objective of the webinar is to enable you to use your desire to help and deliver help that increases another being’s life force without diminishing your own.

See you Sunday at noon EDT. Use this link: https://zoom.us/j/4710611444

There is a $10 donation for the webinar, and if you have not already paid, please use this link: paypal.me/DavidStLawrence/10

Webinar Video Recording – What Help Would Be Acceptable to you?

This webinar was recorded on Sunday, 6/23/19 and contains many insightful observations about help. If you watch this video, you will find that you are better able to receive help and to help others without suffering losses from those who choose to refuse your help.

The webinar is now available on Vimeo. It can be streamed or downloaded for $5 USD and  a 6 minute trailer is available for viewing at no cost.

Use this link: https://vimeo.com/ondemand/acceptablehelp